Being a dad that loves video games

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Possibly the most important issue facing fathers today.

Okay, okay, it is already time to backtrack a little bit. I am aware that this is a very minor issue, especially in the important scheme of fatherhood – don’t get your Wranglers in a wad. The important issues of fatherhood revolve around growing your child into a respectful, helpful, hardworking, loving adult. See? I get it.

Being a Dad that plays games is just an interesting aside to fatherhood that I would like to take a moment to think about. I have already been playing games less and less as life has gone on. Will that desire just evaporate completely once all the new responsibilities arise? Will I just play one night a week once the kids are asleep, or will exhaustion take precedence?

In the early going, sleep will likely be deemed more important. Let’s be realistic.

I love video games and will probably never stop playing completely. There will need to be balance though, as I also want to set correct examples for my son and any other future kids. There is nothing wrong with spending free time doing something fun and relaxing like playing a video game. Knowing when those times are appropriate will be important lessons.

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Also, it isn’t like a three-year-old is going to see you playing a fun-looking game and just continue on his merry way. How early should games be introduced? I got a Game Boy at 6 and got a console (GameCube) probably around 10 or so. Those ages seem reasonable, but our son will grow up with game systems already in the house.

I think that many video games are excellent for critical thinking, problem-solving, vocabulary growth, and competition. I also understand that reading, exercise, and imaginative play are more important, especially in the early stages. Finding a balance will be an interesting challenge. Maybe the little fella will not even like video games; who knows.

Not everyone gets it, but it is more than possible to create great memories playing games. My Dad and I played NBA Live against each other for multiple hours each week. Those were great memories, but so were playing Frisbee, walking in the woods, hitting off the baseball tee, and playing catch. Balance is possible.


My own desire for gaming, my son’s, and the progression of how my son will choose to consume media and entertainment will all be very interesting going forward. Just one very small aspect in the very large future I will share with my son. I just cannot be more excited as every aspect of our family’s new life unfolds.

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